UNHEALTHY COMPARISONS (5)
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‘…Godliness with contentment is great gain.’ 1 TIMOTHY 6:6
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Paul writes, ‘Godliness with contentment is great gain.’ This word ‘gain’ doesn’t mean increase, but profit. There’s a difference. Profit is what you have left when the transaction is over. Paul meant that when everything is said and done, you must feel good about being yourself. You must be able to say, ‘I would rather be a great sergeant than a poor general.’ Only when you’ve followed well, can you lead well. If you’re praying for a certain position or promotion, check your motives. Sometimes what we call faith is really just ambition, because we haven’t come to the place where we’re comfortable with the role God has given us. King Saul’s undoing was his ego. He couldn’t stand somebody else doing it better than he did. Many of us have a wrong concept of what being ‘blessed’ looks like. We have seen God’s blessing in someone else’s life, so we think that to be like them is to be blessed. And no matter what God gives us, we are never happy because we’re not like them. We are asking God for something but we don’t know what it is, what it looks like, or when we have it. And if you don’t know you have it, you won’t know when you lose it. When you keep comparing yourself to somebody else you make that person an idol in your life. Tear that idol down! Ask God for a dream of your own. Stand on your own two feet. Be who God created you to be. Even though God has more in store for you, praise Him for what He’s given you right now.
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UNHEALTHY COMPARISONS (4)
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‘There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit.’ 1 CORINTHIANS 12:4
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No matter how good you are, you’ll never be good at being somebody else. Don’t fall into the trap of trying to live up to the reputation of another person. The new husband says to his wife, ‘My mother makes better fried chicken than this.’ The wife retorts, ‘Then tell your mother to come over here and cook you some.’ If you want your wife to shine in the kitchen, compliment her. Don’t compare her with somebody else. Unhealthy comparisons hurt relationships! The Psalmist writes about the successful person who ‘is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season…’ (Psalm 1:3 NIV). A wise fruit grower understands three things about his trees: 1) Apple trees are only capable of producing apples. 2) Apple trees only produce apples in certain seasons. 3) It is a mistake to pick your apples too early. When the daughter of a well-known preacher was introduced on a Christian television network, she received invitations from several churches to come and speak. But her father said, ‘No, leave her alone. I won’t allow the system to eat her up and begin to compare her unfavourably with her father or mother or somebody else she can never be. I want her to be herself.’ What great counsel and insight! Paul writes, ‘…That we…might be for the praise of his glory’ (Ephesians 1:12 NIV). When you understand who you are and what God created you to be-being yourself brings glory to God! You can say, ‘Lord, I’m thankful for who You made me; I’ve finished complaining or wishing I could be somebody else.’
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Growing In Christ( Avoid Rivalry) Pet Preacher Syndrone
05 Dec 2012
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UNHEALTHY COMPARISONS (3)
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‘I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow.’ 1 CORINTHIANS 3:6
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Unhealthy comparison is a sign of spiritual immaturity. Here’s what Paul wrote to the Corinthians: ‘Brothers, I could not address you as spiritual but as worldly-mere infants in Christ. I gave you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready for it. Indeed, you are still not ready. You are still worldly. For since there is jealousy and quarrelling among you, are you not worldly? Are you not acting like mere men? For when one says, “I follow Paul,” and another, “I follow Apollos,” are you not mere men? What, after all, is Apollos? And what is Paul? Only servants, through whom you came to believe-as the Lord has assigned to each his task. I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow. So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow. The man who plants and the man who waters have one purpose, and each will be rewarded according to his own labour’ (vv. 1-8 NIV). Understanding your gifts and your God-given purpose frees you from the need to measure yourself by the runner in the next lane, or someone playing a different position on the team. When you understand this, your sense of inadequacy will be healed and you’ll be able to enjoy and complement others. You’ll also be able to help liberate your children from sibling rivalry and show them that success is not about being like somebody else, but about being the best you can be, and all God made you to be.
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